I firmly believe that empowering parents with knowledge and support is crucial for the holistic development of our children and the well-being of our families. Since becoming a parent, there has been so much learning and unlearning and relearning. Apparently, it is not like instant coffee, you do not just know what to do as soon as the baby is born.

Parenting is both rewarding and challenging. As we strive to provide the best opportunities and guidance for our children, we find ourselves grappling with the complexities of modern parenting. This is where parent education plays a vital role. It equips us with the necessary tools, strategies, and resources to navigate the journey of raising children and loving the process too. And for us working for this life and the next, it is a level deeper.

Parent education encompasses a wide range of topics, including child development, effective communication, positive discipline, mental health awareness, and then do not forget the spiritual development. It not only enhances our parenting skills but also fosters a stronger bond between parents and children and their Rabb. By investing in our own growth as parents, we create a nurturing environment that promotes the overall well-being and success of our children in both worlds.

Sadly, parent education is not yet normalized in our society. It is often overlooked or undervalued, leading to missed opportunities for personal and spiritual growth and the wholesome development of our children. However, we can change this narrative by collectively acknowledging the importance of parent education.

For some reason today, I was thinking of this ayah and a perspective that has stayed with me for a while…

وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعۡبُدُوٓاْ إِلَّآ إِيَّاهُ وَبِٱلۡوَٰلِدَيۡنِ إِحۡسَٰنًاۚ إِمَّا يَبۡلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ ٱلۡكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَآ أَوۡ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَآ أُفّٖ وَلَا تَنۡهَرۡهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوۡلٗا كَرِيمٗا | وَٱخۡفِضۡ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ ٱلذُّلِّ مِنَ ٱلرَّحۡمَةِ وَقُل رَّبِّ ٱرۡحَمۡهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرٗا

[Surah Al-Isrāʾ: 23-24]

For your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And honour your parents. If one or both of them reach old age in your care, never say to them ˹even˺ ‘ugh,’ nor yell at them. Rather, address them respectfully.And be humble with them out of mercy, and pray, “My Lord! Be merciful to them just like they raised me when I was young.”

And in the du’a it says Allah should have mercy on them just like they had mercy on you. And the onus is on the parents as well – however they treated you. And when you think about it, it is deep, especially for parents who just think they can do anyhow. So the responsibility is huge. It should not be something that we “wing.”

Let’s seek this knowledge. Let’s find supportive groups. Let’s initiate discussions with fellow parents, educators, and community leaders about the significance of tarbiyah. And let us be more open to learning.

May Allah help us raise our children. Amin!

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And mama, you are not alone.